Why do we fight?
Well, it depends on the topic of your argument…sometimes its
small…and sometimes its big….most of the “couple” seems struggling to play dice
with this enigma…I’m not gonna lie to all of you, some of “us” do like to play
with fire….thus came out with terms like “spicing up our relationships….” Or “Just
to kill times….” Haha :-p
Some of my friends did it due to valid reasons like “too
much pressure…”, “annoyed by your actions….” Or “jealousy….” And for whatever
reasons they may be, the constant anger does not hide the true face of your
relationships….i mean, when you fight, all of your hidden feelings seems
flowing endlessly, am I right? Some choose (intentionally or unintentionally) throw
a flashback on past-sins just to win the arguments….some choose to stress on
the current problems…some didn’t even have a clue of the fights but keep on
arguing for the sake of ego and pride…some like to put facts onto the table to
seal the wins…some try to put vague arguments just so that they can get away
from some responsibility….some just try to end up the relationship because they
had someone else in mind…some like to play dumb and just ignore “the talk” for
some reason….looking at all the possibilities, I might say that having this
so-called “couple-fights” does have its turns….it just a matter of going wrong
or right…!!!
It’s a sign…!!!
Better be careful when the “sweet talks” between both of you
suddenly turns into a regular “pet talks” or “distant chats”…it’s always a bad
sign when suddenly the relationships turns distant for no reason (or with vague
reasons) because it means that either one of you are trying to make a mess out
of the relationships….many relationships tend to end due to this reason…and
being at the other end of the string would really suck at this moment…
Maybe your partner tries to tell you something of his/her
disagreement over the things that you’ve done…most of the time, we tend to not
realize of our own wrongdoings…some taken for granted over solid relationships
which lead to a break ups…some being too stringent with their partner to the extent
of suffocating them with the relationships….some puts too much rules and list
of Do’s and Don’ts…some being too overprotective of their partner…some simply
being too carefree of their partner feelings which make them feel insignificant…some
loses their charms and looks…Its funny when we think about this reasons but
trust me, its valid and existed…so please define your relationships level and
their trajectory…if you feel that it is going towards a positive future, means
that both of you are doing fine...but if otherwise, better revise back with
your partner…or simply just have “the talk” :-/
Don’t let a boring you spoils hers…!!!
Try to change…be a better person…I know that accepting you
as who you really are is what being in a relationships is all about…but doesn’t
it also supposed to boost you in becoming a better person? Doesn’t it supposed
to create a perfect you with her present? Doesn’t it supposed to lift you to a
higher level when you are at your emotional perfections peak? As far as I know,
these are the traits of having someone there besides you…not the other way
around…”be a better you for her” is what I always say J
