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Sunday, May 18, 2014

Couples Fight…!!!

Why do we fight?
Well, it depends on the topic of your argument…sometimes its small…and sometimes its big….most of the “couple” seems struggling to play dice with this enigma…I’m not gonna lie to all of you, some of “us” do like to play with fire….thus came out with terms like “spicing up our relationships….” Or “Just to kill times….” Haha :-p
Some of my friends did it due to valid reasons like “too much pressure…”, “annoyed by your actions….” Or “jealousy….” And for whatever reasons they may be, the constant anger does not hide the true face of your relationships….i mean, when you fight, all of your hidden feelings seems flowing endlessly, am I right? Some choose (intentionally or unintentionally) throw a flashback on past-sins just to win the arguments….some choose to stress on the current problems…some didn’t even have a clue of the fights but keep on arguing for the sake of ego and pride…some like to put facts onto the table to seal the wins…some try to put vague arguments just so that they can get away from some responsibility….some just try to end up the relationship because they had someone else in mind…some like to play dumb and just ignore “the talk” for some reason….looking at all the possibilities, I might say that having this so-called “couple-fights” does have its turns….it just a matter of going wrong or right…!!!

It’s a sign…!!!
Better be careful when the “sweet talks” between both of you suddenly turns into a regular “pet talks” or “distant chats”…it’s always a bad sign when suddenly the relationships turns distant for no reason (or with vague reasons) because it means that either one of you are trying to make a mess out of the relationships….many relationships tend to end due to this reason…and being at the other end of the string would really suck at this moment…
Maybe your partner tries to tell you something of his/her disagreement over the things that you’ve done…most of the time, we tend to not realize of our own wrongdoings…some taken for granted over solid relationships which lead to a break ups…some being too stringent with their partner to the extent of suffocating them with the relationships….some puts too much rules and list of Do’s and Don’ts…some being too overprotective of their partner…some simply being too carefree of their partner feelings which make them feel insignificant…some loses their charms and looks…Its funny when we think about this reasons but trust me, its valid and existed…so please define your relationships level and their trajectory…if you feel that it is going towards a positive future, means that both of you are doing fine...but if otherwise, better revise back with your partner…or simply just have “the talk” :-/

 
Don’t let a boring you spoils hers…!!!

Try to change…be a better person…I know that accepting you as who you really are is what being in a relationships is all about…but doesn’t it also supposed to boost you in becoming a better person? Doesn’t it supposed to create a perfect you with her present? Doesn’t it supposed to lift you to a higher level when you are at your emotional perfections peak? As far as I know, these are the traits of having someone there besides you…not the other way around…”be a better you for her” is what I always say J




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