I've been walking at the street one day and suddenly i stumble into this weird looking couple...the girl is beautiful and her face is just so refine which makes me glance at her face a couple of times just to be "honest-to-god" calm...but when i look at her partner...it was like "what daaaa....." haha :-p
Just right afterwards that...the reality starts to open itself to me...my eyes just can't help to keep on searching for the truth...the truth about "love" in its own definition :-)I can see that sometimes we are blinded by the ideas of a "happy" relationship must be based upon looks...and wealth...it sucks because i have been blinded by such predicament for quite a while since...and when i saw this couple having theirs easily...makes me feel kind of jealous a bit :-p haha
Fat girl with hunks guys...skinny women with handsome dudes...i mean, where are the boundaries that I've seen before? Are those just my imagination? or that is just what i wanted the most which suddenly turns into reality in my own imaginary world? The logic is still vague but i'll try to catch up :-)
The true face of L.O.V.E...!!!
Personally i think that the true face of love really stands on the emotional grounds....the way he or she talks, walks, smiles, or maybe even "eat" does impact your emotions straight to your heart....sometimes i wonder, what if someone as beautiful as "Julia Roberts" or "Jennifer Garner" walks through the door and says "will you be my boyfriend...?" will make me say "yes...!!!" :-/
Love suppose yo make you feel comfortable...safe...secure...warm...and happy...but what if you already reach to the point where you already have the "person" that you've "admire" besides you but didn't get those feelings that you're suppose to get? will you have second thoughts? I think that this is the stage where those so-called "jerks of a man..." or "bitch-by definitions" comes into the picture....Those type of a person is the ones whom already feel the wrath of being in the wrong relationships...and when the times flows....the feeling becomes unbearable and it hurts more than being happy with that person...so, some tries to take an early exit by seeking for "options" or worst...commit the "white lies" paradigm just to "save" the relationship....but for me its more like lying to yourself...and the partner will feel the difference someday soon...
A happy relationship need to be worst...!!!
I often wonder why most people keep on repeating "if you never had a fight with your partner, then you're not in a relationship" i mean, why the bother if you are happy with someone which makes you have the urge to pick a fight when they are not suppose to be in the "option list" right?But, their argument were always the same...when you fight, the true nature of your partner will reveal themselves...and you need to really understand them and make your own decision on how to manage them...because you will have them besides you for a long time...and the idea of revealing that much of your "true" self to another person means that person really feel comfortable with you...so you better not take it for granted and do what you're suppose to do :-)
Love Anatomy...!!!
I guess, in the end...love does not choose its own definition for a reason...it always make itself a puzzle which requires those soul that crave for it to seek it in its truest form....not blinded by the worlds chronology of "love" and not distracted by the temptations...always see the possibilities in the hardships because to build a strong relationship need both of heart combined...not one souls journey...or the attempt which doomed to fail...
Aren't love beautiful...?
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