I just have a debate with one of my friends about how HARD love is...and how us GUYS should not take it for granted once we have it... :-p and of course, as the "opposition" he keeps arguing about my thoughts on the DETAILS..... :-(
Well...maybe i over-think about this sort of stuff...and maybe my lack of experience make me "assume" much of the impact towards whoever that receive the blow....but what the heck...!!! :-p I always routing for those whom appreciate their partner and respect their needs and desire...always try to fulfill their every heart content because it shows that you care so much about them (well...it goes in both ways of course...) :-) but it kind of sad to see that some of us take LOVE for granted and assume that the idea of "trying" is enough...and "maintaining" is just a word...Its kind of making me irritated a bit about his so-called "theory" which just stops at the part when she says "yes" and not do anything once she starts "giving" :-( Trust me dude...you will make your partner hesitate about the choices that she makes later...(Hopefully everything goes fine between both of you...)The Myth...!!!
A lot of love stories in the movies stops at the part when both of the main characters are married...or meeting each other (finally)....but rarely we see a sequel of them living their life's together...right? I mean..what happen after the marriage? what about their career? what about their children? have you ever think about it?I noted that every single person have their own story to tell...and each of them are different from other people...but wouldn't it hurt to just put an effort to make both of your life's happier? always remember that "understanding" is about having the idea of what's going on with your life...but "accepting" is about tolerating on those matter...and if you or your partner is blind enough to see that...means that he or she is not putting enough effort in the relationship....
~Don't give love a bad name...~
The Apocalypse of Love...!!!
I know that putting "money" as the basis for love is not right...but judging by the thoughts of continuum of both of your life as equally happy and financially secure makes it more and more relevant in the nowadays environment....One of my friends already having his first new-born baby and he is also struggling to put an effort to ensure that the life of his family is secure...(nothing comes easy with this dude...haha)~Bless you bro~ :-)
Some of my friends has become a scavengers...and money are like "everything" to them now...and when i ask the reasons being...their reply were "i want to get married bro...." haha :-p
For me...it is not wrong for you to either be broke,,,or penniless...because sometimes, when loves are in the air..you will find your true love eventually...but it is wrong for you to be living as you are once you have it..right? because you are suppose to give your best to your partner and always make sure that decision that they make are not a wrong ones....because once they have those thoughts...you are screwed...haha :-p
~Love is not for the weak...not for the poor...and not for the broken hearted..because once you have love...it will give you courage...heals your soul...and drives you o a new height which you never been before~
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