Everlasting Love….!!!

Does L.O.V.E. last…?

There is no such thing as “everlasting” phenomenon in this world…the one that is consistently prolonged are “changes” and these might be for the better or for the worst…who would knew the outcome of everything…am I right? Even though there are saying that says “love transcends time and ages…” but it never specifies the continuation of it…I mean, everything requires some sort of fuel to burn up the fire right? So, why “love” should be excluded from all of this?

If you’re not careful with this elements, you might be considered as those whom taken love for granted…always paying respect to those “unforeseen-god” which supposed to firmly tided up your relationship to its core and will never let go…well, guess what…? You’re totally wrong…!!! The minute you’ve have that sort of idea that “love” is simplistic as it is…then you can safely say to yourself that “You’re dead…” and your relationship is going downhill on moving forward…

Just consider yourself lucky if he or she still stays…because (and again I quote) they stayed for a reason…and those reason can be anything….you be the judge on that…!!!

No One Are Safe…Not Yet…!!!

I know that everyone will pull their trigger towards me by saying stuff like “What the hell that you know about love…you don’t even be in a relationship yet…So, stop being a smart-ass…” right? But guess what, if what I’ve said is wrong…then prove it to me that not even a single write-up is useful and all of it is trash and made up clues…!!! Because trust me, either you be or not in a relationship, as long as you have a clear understanding of each other “needs” and “wants”, then you are not that far off from the truth…

Some people just don’t want to accept the fact that love requires more effort than anything…because it represents your sincerity, devotion, respects, attentions, and many more towards your partner…not to mention their willingness to accept your flaws and imperfections’…

From love blooms its fruitful result like “marriages”…and babies… and from there, comes you and I…have you ever consider that? Just imagine how hard our mom and dad struggles to raise us…and without those “love” and “affection” towards each other, this “fruit” won’t blooms till now…lucky us huh?

Another Princess Cinderella’s story…!!!

Well, reality check…not everyone have the pleasure to dine a candle-light dinner in expensive hotel or restaurant to talk about their relationship, or have those long walk on the beach in Milan just to show that their love is as beautiful as those sunsets in front…but you need to try to make the best out of what you’ve got…remember that this is not a number’s game…and surely this is not something that you just do it one time only…love blossom because of the quality of your love…and not the quantity of those materials which you’ve poured… It’s all fun and games when love is getting too easy to be obtain…but more or less, one way or another…he or she’s true feeling shall emerge itself…and trust me guys…the physical appearances of those so-called “soul” can be ugly sometimes…I guess pointing fingers just won’t cut it when that time comes…  

Charity Or Sympathy…!!!

Which One Do We Usually Choose…?

A part from being conceited by our own “kindness”, we tend to forget the true meaning of “giving” thus makes us vulnerable to those humanly perceptions that blinded us…Have you ever felt that the world around you be so much of a rascal sometimes? We wanted to be acknowledge and accepted by our peers and friends by presenting whatever proportion that we have…but they keep on putting our salvation away by saying stuff like “you are not good enough…” or “hypocrites…”

Being left alone in this world proves that only the “fittest” survives…but not everyone shares the same idea…I for myself always belief that every ounce of contribution that we’ve made throughout this years will only serves us years to come…so it’s more like a personal investment instead of an “instant profits”…

It’s funny to see how much we struggle to achieve something in life, but forgetting the fact that there are bunches of other people that shares the same idea…so how much are the odds of us getting there? Because from what I’ve learned, people tend to question the reasoning behind “giving” or “contributing”…but only few seems to ask “The impact…” and “The goodness…” of those action….sad right?

Fool of Fools…!!!

I may be too diligent by saying this…but for me, those “fools…” are a fool among “fools…” which make them lost the benefit of “giving” all these years…How can we say our self as “moving forward” but the lesser we earn results the lesser we yearn? It should be the other way around right?

All of us shares the same goal…and those goal probes millions of ways to reach it…but we tend to shredded our way up into those small holes which we call “opportunity”…I mean, come on…!!! God is not that cruel in giving only one small windows of opportunity to all of us right? Everyone deserve the every rights to receive the treasure chest…The game of life is not the same as those football games…we didn’t receive only one ball for each games…we have been given a ball to each and every one of us…but the question is, will we shoot the ball onto the net? Will we dribble it? Will we pass it to others? Its all depend on you…!!! Think about it…

Enough Charity…!!!

Should I stop? Should I keep on “giving”? Should I waste another time of my life by “serving” others?is the question which I could not answer within my current state…I mean, if I recap back at all my pass experience, the reason of “me” being the “me” I am right now is because of those “giving’s” and without it, I could never reach to where I am right now…that’s for sure…but I acknowledge that every good deeds has its limits…not just for the others…but also for myself…so I can only just pray that Allah is giving enough strength to keep on “giving” instead of “receiving”…and only then, I can finally say to myself that “I’m done….”….at least for now… J How about you?

Hopes and Dreams…!!!

How do you define it…?

It’s supposed to be as simple as “what I want in life” right? But what makes it complicated? This question lingers in my mind for quite some time now. Maybe because I’m such an airhead to the extent where those unnecessary comment means nothing to me….

What you want is up to you…that are from my standpoint…but nowadays it’s not so due to various reasons which blocked your intention and captivate you in your own world….why so? Why must you condone to others limitation? They maybe can’t reach to where you stand, so they envy your success or your road to success…because for them, it’s impossible (which is also wrong on their part)…

Our limitation only exist when we allow them to appear…same goes to our fears, interest, passions, and many more…I just don’t understand why we must limit ourselves? Not only it sounded wrong and weak…but it also demotivate me at some point which makes me reconsider a few things that I want to achieve in life…and I hate it so much… L

Do You Deserve To Have Them…?

I belief strongly that everyone deserve to have dreams and hopes…why shouldn’t them? We are all created equally…regardless of gender…status…religion…and many more…we are entitle to own ourselves…there is no such thing as “fix” in life’s dictionary…because the only thing that is certain are “changes” right? So, in my opinion…changes represent “choices” which could lead to another set of “destination” each time we make them…and this is what we call “decision”….so the only “sin” that we bear when we reach to a wrong destination is on those decisions that we make…not the result…so don’t blame yourself too much when we diverted ourselves a bit…sometimes maybe there are some hiccups along the way…some maybe reach to the point where their resources or support are exhausted, so they couldn’t reach those goals…and started to “give up”….on that level, I pretty much understand…but you yourself need to know when to start to go back up and try again…for some people, it’s a game of endurance…for some, it’s more on strategy…there are also “luck”….but I don’t put my hopes too high on that…maybe it’s nice to have them once or twice...just in case…hehe J

Supporters and Hater…?

You have to anticipate that along your road to reach your “destination”, you’ll meet those whom support you…and those whom despise you…either way, both of this type are important in gaining the leverage to get “there”…for me, never hate someone too much…and never love someone too much also…because you’ll never know when will these two swaps with each other…I occasionally heard stories in which some of my friend of friends turn their back on each other and put a wall in between…and the sad part about these two is, they have been friends for like forever…and when something happen which triggers both interest, they decided to protect themselves and lead to this commotion…whereas, some stories I’ve heard that there are enemies which becomes friend because of their arguments between each other throughout all the years …and suddenly have this some sort of rationalization that they actually like each other weaknesses and can’t live without their comments to improve themselves…

I guess right now…anything can happen…right? You do the judging…

The Chronicles of Key Board Warrior...!!!

Everyone is a journalist...!!!
Social media (such as this) proves to be such a hit which make a lot of people can easily express their feelings, thoughts and other emotions that pops into their mind...some choose to post something symbolic about their life...some prefer foods and beverages...other just plain expression of their emotions which sometimes can lead to a more incurable stagings...so is this phenomenon probes a positive attributes? or not?
Simply put, i vouch for those "silver lining" between these two...i mean, there are a lot of positive creations, but those negative faults also need to be put into the account...I can't really create much of a scene because i am one of those goons so-called, so the idiom towards this debate is scarcely directed to a more redundant facts...Not to mention those obligated resentment to disclose any particular details which should be concealed is hardly addictive to social appraisals and "like" buttons...i mean, i'm not saying that i'd excluded myself from this, but clearly consider the after-effect which stimulate your eagerness to "write" before you post something...because those wrongly deciphered words could cause you more than your "earnings"

Emotions before Brains...!!!

There are few whom decided to put everything on the line for the sake of "self-retributions" and most of the time their actions involve other parties which result a more destructive cause...I still don't fully understand the reasons behind it (besides wanting to make a point) but one things for sure is that these group of people play dice with their action more than enough to be casually appose by their surroundings...
Is it worth it? to be those so-called "warrior" that doesn't have any support? or the physical confrontation towards your benefactors? I myself always believe in the art of confronting your enemy, even it meant to be harshly caste by them, because that's the real confrontation for me...but how about these groups? Their whole meaning of self-justice is solely being behind the screen and resent the world which might not even existed in the first place...and the more their "writings" being resent by the public, the more they hate the world around them (especially those whom know them personally which involves directly or indirectly in the conflicts)...

Happy Ending...?
Most of the key board warrior that I've met so far could not gain "respective" recognition by their piers...and some of them live in dark alley of the society...just seeing their eyes lurking at their new target is enough to creeps me out...because honestly, some of them do have quite a "stare" if you know what i mean...I always pledge myself to approach this group as often as i can to provide my insight of their doings, but sad as it seems, their personality do comes in sets which lured me towards the wrong side of the fence very much often...Those smiles and greetings proves to be just a mirage and those warm gesture of "listening s" does not even switch any sparks into their "acceptance"...I do get pissed off sometimes by their hypocrisy but i can't seems to dodge my way out on retrieving their moralities back to the realities of the world...I just feel sorry for them..I really do :-(


      

Ticklish Minglish...!!!

Probably...!!!

You think that you would never want to do it until the opportunity present themselves in front of you. The same theory imply to everyone...not even a single soul exempted from this phenomenon. You think that your "saint" side would prevent you from doing it...but for how long? Usually, we say those "admirable" words because we are not capable of doing it...but what happen when we can? can you NOT be tempted by your own desire? What if those "opportunity" comes with a set of perfectly figured form? would you be "gentlemen" enough to void it?
Perfectly shaped body, silky hair, white fairer skin, hazel eyes, soft-touches, sexy voice would do the trick just fine...am I right? I mean, every man always dream to have such "affair" but only those selected few would do it for real...but for what cause? Is it worth it? To let go of something firm and solid such as your current relationship with something that could probably just be a "fling" along the side roads.


Ready To Mingle...?
Its a good question though...are you ready to put everything on the line? Your whole life is revolve around your relationship between that someone special...but why would anyone want to risk it? Try to remember the first time you try to woe her...those long hours of sleepless night thinking about her...those gift-cards that you first wrote to her...countless time chasing a glance of her smiles...sneaking outside her house at night just to see her turn off the light...putting flowers under her desk during recess period...buying her a birthday present and hope that she found it to be special...gazing at the stars at night whilst hoping that she would do the same...write her name out of your notebook or draw a face which make you think of her every time you look at it...I mean, try to remember all those things that you've done to her...all those effort proves that she is worth the trouble...because deep down inside your heart, you knew that she's the one...why choose the other?  

It's A Guy Thing...!!!
As a guy, i have to admit that it is in our manly-instinct to act the way that we are right now...and never a doubt that for a guy, able to attract more "chicks" is consider as a winning end and this probes to the other male that we are superior in our own terms...but nevertheless, its also possible for us to guide those ballistic lust of ours towards a more meaningful end...and personally I think that it would be a more rewarding gift to be able to flourish every ounce of your love and devotion towards that one special someone...I mean...that's love is all about, right?  

Forgive to Forget...!!!

Not Many Willingly Do This...!!!
I've tried this before...and it is hard as hell...have you ever been in the situation where someone has made something wrong in your life, and you keep pushing yourself to forgive them simply because you still want them to be a part of your life? I don't know whether this is an act of "love" or just plain "stupidity"...
But pretty much as it seems, I think I'd be able to relate to them lots...because I've been there before...You think that you know those people as much as you knew their intentions were...but it seems in the end, they just not whom they seems...I've cried over this...over and over again...been thinking a lot about it...in the end, it's just a waste of time...because somehow you just can't change who they are...unless they let you...Deep in your heart, you wanted a matrimonial judgement...you want them to suffer...you want them to pay the price...even those smiling faces of yours didn't hide those deep intention within...is it bad?

Love Comes In Many Forms...!!!
"Letting go" is one of them...don't think that loving is "having" them next to you...sometimes, love take place far away...it even transcend times and space...so, don't be sad whether you be in the pinch of choosing between "having" or "letting go"...what matters the most is your happiness...if you're not happy with that person, just them go...or if that person is not happy with you, you should do the same thing...Love comes in many forms (which i think is one of the wonders of love itself) because "hatred" is also one of them...you "hate" because you care...if not, that person does not hold any interest in your life wouldn't them?
Changing the facts that you will "suffer" if that person leave you surely marks a black dots in the emptiness of your heart, right? but for me, seeing them smiling everyday...living happily is what matters the most...you want them to be beside you because you think that you can bring happiness to them, but as fate turns out, they are destined to be with someone else...so accept it wholly and grace yourself because whether you acknowledge it or not, that person is actually "happy"...but it seems your anger just focusing on the fact that those happiness doesn't come from you..am I right?

Forgive them...!!!
Even they are the ones to be blame...just let them go...because every soul needs a closure...and that closure will determine your next move...whether you'll become more mature or just stuck at where you are right now...you do the math...!!! Every moment that you had with them should be remembered...if you ask me, I feel blessed because I have been a part of someone else life for a change...even though it was brief and not so much of a romantic scenes, but i know that it was because of me that she find that "other person"...it was me that make her feel "confident" of her choice...it was me whom make her heart able to feel "love" like she wanted...even though I'm not the one whom make her cheers, but i'm sure that i'm the one whom open up the door to her happiness...

Couples Fight…!!!

Why do we fight?

Well, it depends on the topic of your argument…sometimes its small…and sometimes its big….most of the “couple” seems struggling to play dice with this enigma…I’m not gonna lie to all of you, some of “us” do like to play with fire….thus came out with terms like “spicing up our relationships….” Or “Just to kill times….” Haha :-p

Some of my friends did it due to valid reasons like “too much pressure…”, “annoyed by your actions….” Or “jealousy….” And for whatever reasons they may be, the constant anger does not hide the true face of your relationships….i mean, when you fight, all of your hidden feelings seems flowing endlessly, am I right? Some choose (intentionally or unintentionally) throw a flashback on past-sins just to win the arguments….some choose to stress on the current problems…some didn’t even have a clue of the fights but keep on arguing for the sake of ego and pride…some like to put facts onto the table to seal the wins…some try to put vague arguments just so that they can get away from some responsibility….some just try to end up the relationship because they had someone else in mind…some like to play dumb and just ignore “the talk” for some reason….looking at all the possibilities, I might say that having this so-called “couple-fights” does have its turns….it just a matter of going wrong or right…!!!

It’s a sign…!!!

Better be careful when the “sweet talks” between both of you suddenly turns into a regular “pet talks” or “distant chats”…it’s always a bad sign when suddenly the relationships turns distant for no reason (or with vague reasons) because it means that either one of you are trying to make a mess out of the relationships….many relationships tend to end due to this reason…and being at the other end of the string would really suck at this moment…

Maybe your partner tries to tell you something of his/her disagreement over the things that you’ve done…most of the time, we tend to not realize of our own wrongdoings…some taken for granted over solid relationships which lead to a break ups…some being too stringent with their partner to the extent of suffocating them with the relationships….some puts too much rules and list of Do’s and Don’ts…some being too overprotective of their partner…some simply being too carefree of their partner feelings which make them feel insignificant…some loses their charms and looks…Its funny when we think about this reasons but trust me, its valid and existed…so please define your relationships level and their trajectory…if you feel that it is going towards a positive future, means that both of you are doing fine...but if otherwise, better revise back with your partner…or simply just have “the talk” :-/

 

Don’t let a boring you spoils hers…!!!

Try to change…be a better person…I know that accepting you as who you really are is what being in a relationships is all about…but doesn’t it also supposed to boost you in becoming a better person? Doesn’t it supposed to create a perfect you with her present? Doesn’t it supposed to lift you to a higher level when you are at your emotional perfections peak? As far as I know, these are the traits of having someone there besides you…not the other way around…”be a better you for her” is what I always say J