No doubt in any men's mind that this is the most obvious determinant of a women's beauty...but does it really the case? The shape of their hips...the curves...the legs...does it really make a women what they really are? All this time I've been judging women's beauty by seeing this traits...and in the end it deluded my vision towards other characteristics of women which i found more appealing which is their smiles...attitudes....laughs...maturity...and many more...sexy is the words...but for me, there are hundreds of other words that can convey the same meaning...
I'm not giving away the fact that physical beauty is not important because I would be lying if I did so...but what I'm trying to say that it is not the only thing that matters...because as far as the body goes, the heart is what we search for...but most of us use physical traits to compensate their heart...and this usually dictates those breakups...divorces...and who to be blame for this? The guys that attracted to only the physical traits of a women? or the women that have to comply with the men's lust for physical affection by being sexy?
What Is Beauty?
Something that easy on the eyes? or something that can calms your soul? This two genres really attracts my attention since both of them have huge impact towards the whole relationship...one can only bring delight for a very short period of time...and the other can put someone mind and soul at peace throughout their life...what's funny about women nowadays is that most of them wanted the "Eternity Package" but put their faith in the "Fast Food" section...so the question is why?
If i use my logic of mind, it would go back to the traits of women and their trust issue...so far, based on experience, women are really loyal to their "chosen partner" and what cracks them up is when those "trust" has been breached...and this effected them tremendously and the result is more on them trying to compensate those loss with "options" and in order to get options, they forced themselves to be really aggressive in terms of getting them...this however is a separate case from those women which have less attractive physicals whereby they usually tries to highlight their other means in order to capture men's attentions.
A Million Dollar Question...!!!
If this type of so-called "victim of love" passes by a really respectable and loyal guy, would she be able to accept that person? and if that person is unlike the other "options" which she already captured, will she still be interested? From my point of view..the answer would be "a bit hard"...if the women is too consumed with all the wonders which those "options" provide...then it will be hard for her to step back and be in the real world... no judgement here from my end because it has been acknowledge by many that women have a tough time to going backward in lifestyle...so it is only plausible that they still wanted similar or more attachment such as these...so as what any other good-will person would do...i can only pray that they found their love in those world that they lived in...i know that i can only see them from the glass-case outside...but it never stops me from loving them...because i believe that loving is all about appreciation...not so much about possession...but if one of those angel willing to step down from their heaven and even glance at me, then i would consider myself as lucky to be born as a men...and if any of those women such caliber as that willing to even consider to love someone like me, then i think "age" is being cruel to them...because physical is not enough to sustain such beauty....and hopefully God bless them with so much joy and happines that the world can offer...!!!
~Women's beauty is not from her physical...but from her heart...~
