I really don't get it....those whom i think already have a perfect life...have a good partner....clearly been blessed with a happy family, still have the decencies to look for other "enjoyment" besides what they already have...
Nevertheless, their argument were always be like "you're not good enough for me..." is somewhat disturbed me quite a bit...when you think that your life is all figured out, this type of a person comes inn and ruined it for you....hmmmBeing an "options" is really depressing for someone like me (especially)...because in this game of "who's more popular..." I'm the type of a guy whom didn't have any back up plans :-p Well, you can't blame me in this...for me, it is a courtesy of a "gentlemen" when approaching a potential "partner" to discard themselves from any unnecessary commitment...am I right?
I applause those whom have this so-called "back up plan" or "escape plan" before approaching a more pleasant partner because for me, they have the upper hand in saying stuff like "i don't really care much if you are not interested in me...because I have tons of guys swarming all over me...." haha :-p
But please be assure that guys really don't appreciate being another gateway for some other guys...so please be careful ladies :-/
Why accept them in the first place...?
I know that for most girl, they always feel insecure of the guys that they a currently with...maybe because some of them are hot-headed...or too stiff....or not romantic enough....but the real question here is, why do you accept them in the first place if you already know how they were before....? or maybe you already try to change them to suit your interest and it failed badly?....but isn't the key in a long lasting relationship is to accept their good and their bad...?
Not everyone are fortunate to find their "prince charming" that have everything that they desired in a man...but it doesn't mean that your life would never be like those "fairy tales"....isn't in every ending there are always a "happily ever after..."? why do you stop believing in those if you always looking for it in the first place?Sometimes, those "happy ending" are not given easily...some fought for it...some die trying...and what makes you so sure that you deserve those "happiness" so easily?
Think about it....!!!
The Phase of Relationships...!!!
I have a theory....in any relationships, there are always this three phases which define whether you and your partner can last in your current relationship or not...and it goes something like this "in relationship, you meet, falls in love and get married, right?.....but in between those phases there are this stages which in lined with it....the first is "preparation" before you enter this game of "meet and greet" you must have a basic understanding of how "love" works.....secondly is "understanding" after you find your partner and able to gain their trust, you need to really understand their "likes and dislikes" and also know them inside out....thirdly is "sacrifices" when both of you decided to walk on each other path, you must make some sacrifices in order to meet each other expectations....you can't be your usual mode anymore...because now, the commitment falls onto both of your shoulders to raise your own family.... But sadly, not many have the time to really think about this stuff and always wait until the damage has been done before taking any action to prevent it...
#i guess i myself need to take my own advice this time...hehe :-p
